Andrew JohnstoninAge of EmpathySeeking My Father, Finding a BrotherI knew that researching my paternal family would be hard, but I never dreamed it would be so awkwardOct 8, 20211Oct 8, 20211
Andrew JohnstoninILLUMINATIONFour Things That This Adoptee Wishes You UnderstoodA children’s collection of cliches and misperceptions I wish I’d never have to hear of againSep 14, 20211Sep 14, 20211
Andrew JohnstoninEverything ShortformThis is the part where my family research gets tricky.I’ve now spoken extensively with members of my maternal family and received a treasure trove of photographs and drawings for my efforts.Sep 6, 20211Sep 6, 20211
Andrew JohnstoninAge of EmpathyGathering the Branches of my Family TreeMaking contact with my biological family has been a struggle — but slowly, it’s paying offSep 3, 20214Sep 3, 20214
Andrew JohnstoninEverything ShortformI just finished trying to call my aunts, and my hands are literally trembling.I guess I have to wait and try again. The second time is always easier, after all. I’m still not sure what I’m going to say to them…Aug 6, 2021Aug 6, 2021
Andrew JohnstoninFound In My JournalPhone Numbers for Familiar StrangersSometimes picking up the phone takes a little extra strengthAug 4, 20211Aug 4, 20211
Andrew JohnstoninEverything ShortformResearch into your roots can turn up uncomfortable information.It’s possible (though I as yet have no hard proof) that the relationship between my mother and father was unsavory. It would be easy to say…Jul 29, 2021Jul 29, 2021
Andrew JohnstoninILLUMINATIONWhy Is It so Hard to Talk to My Adoptive Parents About My Birth Mother?It’s hard to be honest about our pain — even (or especially) to ourselves.Jul 26, 2021Jul 26, 2021
Andrew JohnstoninEverything ShortformA few weeks ago, I resumed researching my biological mother’s life, something I gave up on nearly…When I started this, all I had was a letter. Now I have a letter and a picture.Jul 23, 2021Jul 23, 2021
Andrew JohnstoninAge of EmpathyI Outlived the Mother I Never KnewBetween the lines lie little truths and big mysteriesJul 13, 20213Jul 13, 20213